I am not overly critical most of the time, but I do feel I should correct you on the descriptor you used for the picture since "sodomy" has nothing to do with this picture.
This would be more in line with a BDSM picture which has a few definitions. One being:
The term "BDSM" is an abbreviation derived from the terms bondage and discipline, domination and submission, and sadism and masochism, and describes a spectrum of behavior, usually sexual, which can include dominance and submission, punishment, masochism and bondage play, among other activities.
So this picture is more of the submission style of BDSM.
sorry to hear about not liking the shots. But you are right, you are very rushed at those events.
I am used to shooting fast and shoot with varying lighting, but I see what you mean. You shoot a certain style and it is definitely not suited to being rushed and you get such awesome results. I love soooo much of your work.
I had a good bday, still partying a bit and recuperating from injuries from the previous parties as well.